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היי חברים, לצורך חידוד הדברים שכבר אמרתי בפורום הנה רב האומן האולטימטיבי ומקבץ ציטוטים מראיון שנעשה איתו לאחר פריצת המלחמה באפגניסטן: 1. I know of things which are so absurd. I met someone on an airplane who pulled out my book and started reading it. I laughed and said: ”Are you enjoying that book?” The guy said: ”No, but it is very important!” And I said: ”What is it you're trying to get out of it? Because actually I've read that book. It was about thirty years ago and my memory is that there is not that much in it.” 2. NLP has never written anything. It's a word. It's not a human being, it does not own anything, it is just three letters out of the alphabet which I put together as the name of what I do. And I have been very generous about sharing it with people but there are a lot of people who have been much more generous with themselves about stealing it. 3. The most important thing is that people focus on what it is that my work is about: My work is about making humans rise above the dung of society - not to be better than other people, but to be better human beings, better than they were the day before, and better the next day than they were the day before that. Not bigger idiots, not bigger titles, not more credentials, not bigger plagiarists. 4. נקודה חשובה ביותר שמעלה ריצ'ארד לגבי כמות הספרים העצומה שנכתבה בתחום NLP בעולם: A journalist from Germany said to me one time that she was at a workshop and they had a table full of books. There must have been 200 different NLP books out there and she said she bought everyone of them and she went and she read all these books and she said: ”All of the stuff that was in all of the books is in your book already. So what are these other books for?” And I said: ”Money! That’s what they are for. They‘re not about ideas. 5. That to me is a funny thing: That people put so much effort into defending theories. And I never put any energy into it. And that's why I've gone as far and as fast as I have. All I was looking for was a way to get to the end. And if anybody knew any way to get to the end, I didn't care what they call it. Whether they called it psychotherapy, whether they called it religion, whether they called it psychic healing, I don't care what the name of it is. All I wanna know is how to get to the end. And I'll cut the rest out of the way really quickly. I am very good at getting rid of the nonsense and sticking with the really pure nonsense. ואחרון חביב: To me the difference between the way I teach people to do things and the way they get distorted over the years is that people take old books, old tapes, distorted learnings. Because if you take thirty people in a room and you say a sentence to one and you pass it around by the time it gets to the end it doesn’t even match the first sentence. Usually it doesn‘t get through five people. Take somebody who attended a one or two day course and annointed themselves a trainer and went to somebody who went to somebody who went to somebody who didn’t go to anybody - and that they’re still gonna know the same things. No! ראוי להפנים
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היי חברים, לצורך חידוד הדברים שכבר אמרתי בפורום הנה רב האומן האולטימטיבי ומקבץ ציטוטים מראיון שנעשה איתו לאחר פריצת המלחמה באפגניסטן: 1. I know of things which are so absurd. I met someone on an airplane who pulled out my book and started reading it. I laughed and said: ”Are you enjoying that book?” The guy said: ”No, but it is very important!” And I said: ”What is it you're trying to get out of it? Because actually I've read that book. It was about thirty years ago and my memory is that there is not that much in it.” 2. NLP has never written anything. It's a word. It's not a human being, it does not own anything, it is just three letters out of the alphabet which I put together as the name of what I do. And I have been very generous about sharing it with people but there are a lot of people who have been much more generous with themselves about stealing it. 3. The most important thing is that people focus on what it is that my work is about: My work is about making humans rise above the dung of society - not to be better than other people, but to be better human beings, better than they were the day before, and better the next day than they were the day before that. Not bigger idiots, not bigger titles, not more credentials, not bigger plagiarists. 4. נקודה חשובה ביותר שמעלה ריצ'ארד לגבי כמות הספרים העצומה שנכתבה בתחום NLP בעולם: A journalist from Germany said to me one time that she was at a workshop and they had a table full of books. There must have been 200 different NLP books out there and she said she bought everyone of them and she went and she read all these books and she said: ”All of the stuff that was in all of the books is in your book already. So what are these other books for?” And I said: ”Money! That’s what they are for. They‘re not about ideas. 5. That to me is a funny thing: That people put so much effort into defending theories. And I never put any energy into it. And that's why I've gone as far and as fast as I have. All I was looking for was a way to get to the end. And if anybody knew any way to get to the end, I didn't care what they call it. Whether they called it psychotherapy, whether they called it religion, whether they called it psychic healing, I don't care what the name of it is. All I wanna know is how to get to the end. And I'll cut the rest out of the way really quickly. I am very good at getting rid of the nonsense and sticking with the really pure nonsense. ואחרון חביב: To me the difference between the way I teach people to do things and the way they get distorted over the years is that people take old books, old tapes, distorted learnings. Because if you take thirty people in a room and you say a sentence to one and you pass it around by the time it gets to the end it doesn’t even match the first sentence. Usually it doesn‘t get through five people. Take somebody who attended a one or two day course and annointed themselves a trainer and went to somebody who went to somebody who went to somebody who didn’t go to anybody - and that they’re still gonna know the same things. No! ראוי להפנים
