אתה משתמש בדפדפן מיושן. יתכן והאתר הנוכחי יוצג באופן שגוי, כמו כן אתרים אחרים ברשת.
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טלי רוזנבאום
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pain after intercourse
There are several possibilities for why you are having pain after intercourse and you should see your gynecologist to make sure you do not have a yeast or vaginal infection, or some other gynecological source. You mentioned in your first email that you dont have orgasms and that you need sex all the time. Perhaps you can elaborate on that? Also, are you aware if you are contracting your vaginal muscles during intercourse? If you are too tense, or the muscles are tight, you are not properly aroused and lubricated, there could be tiny microscopic tears inside the vaginal walls...when the semen comes in contact with them, they could burn. Does this happen as well when using a condom? Are you certain that you are sufficiently aroused?. When you say you slept with "someone", was it your boyfriend, or someone you have special feelings for?
There are several possibilities for why you are having pain after intercourse and you should see your gynecologist to make sure you do not have a yeast or vaginal infection, or some other gynecological source. You mentioned in your first email that you dont have orgasms and that you need sex all the time. Perhaps you can elaborate on that? Also, are you aware if you are contracting your vaginal muscles during intercourse? If you are too tense, or the muscles are tight, you are not properly aroused and lubricated, there could be tiny microscopic tears inside the vaginal walls...when the semen comes in contact with them, they could burn. Does this happen as well when using a condom? Are you certain that you are sufficiently aroused?. When you say you slept with "someone", was it your boyfriend, or someone you have special feelings for?
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זה ששכבתי איתו זה אקס ואנחנו לא משתמשים בקונדום כי אנחנו דיי סומכים אחד על השני ולא היה לנו שום דבר מאז עם הקונדום זה יותר כואב לי וכניראה אני לא מספיק מגורה... אבל אני לא מצליחה להתגרות יותר מידיי.... והג´ל באיזה שלב מתייבש ואני ממש לא מסוגלת אחר כך לתפקד כי נורא שורף תודה בכל מקרה על התשובה והגניקולוג אמר שהוא לןא רואה כלום ונתן לי בדיקה וגינלית אבל לא עשיתי...
זה ששכבתי איתו זה אקס ואנחנו לא משתמשים בקונדום כי אנחנו דיי סומכים אחד על השני ולא היה לנו שום דבר מאז עם הקונדום זה יותר כואב לי וכניראה אני לא מספיק מגורה... אבל אני לא מצליחה להתגרות יותר מידיי.... והג´ל באיזה שלב מתייבש ואני ממש לא מסוגלת אחר כך לתפקד כי נורא שורף תודה בכל מקרה על התשובה והגניקולוג אמר שהוא לןא רואה כלום ונתן לי בדיקה וגינלית אבל לא עשיתי...
טלי רוזנבאום
New member
what to do about the burning
I am sorry about your pain. I suggest you bathe in 3 drops tea tree combined with 5 drops lavender oil. Afterwards, rub pure vitamin E oil on your vagina. This may help.You can also try contracting your pelvic floor muscles for 10 seconds, then relaxing them for 10 seconds (making sure they completely relax).Do this about 10-20x 3x a day. KY jel can be drying. There is a product from America called "astroglide" which is a liquid lubricant. I saw a similar product here called Top Jel here but heard feedback about it. You can also try vitamin E oil as a lubricant. But my first suggestion would be to have intercourse when you feel ready. BTW, are you able to place 2 fingers inside your vagina without a problem?
I am sorry about your pain. I suggest you bathe in 3 drops tea tree combined with 5 drops lavender oil. Afterwards, rub pure vitamin E oil on your vagina. This may help.You can also try contracting your pelvic floor muscles for 10 seconds, then relaxing them for 10 seconds (making sure they completely relax).Do this about 10-20x 3x a day. KY jel can be drying. There is a product from America called "astroglide" which is a liquid lubricant. I saw a similar product here called Top Jel here but heard feedback about it. You can also try vitamin E oil as a lubricant. But my first suggestion would be to have intercourse when you feel ready. BTW, are you able to place 2 fingers inside your vagina without a problem?
טלי רוזנבאום
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why ask nosy questions?
I will explain my seemingly irrelevant questions. Sexual activity is a classic example of the mind-body connection at work. When there is sufficient arousal , the body is ready for intercourse,( by being lubricated, the clitoris becomes erect and the genitals fill with blood, and the vagina opens). When there is not,intercourse can be painful.If a woman has already internalized that intercourse is or will at some point cause pain, in addition to which she is not excited enough, she may tense her vaginal muscles, resulting in even more pain as I described in my previous post. So I dont question who she slept with, but the motivation to have intercourse when clearly not enough arousal has occured.
I will explain my seemingly irrelevant questions. Sexual activity is a classic example of the mind-body connection at work. When there is sufficient arousal , the body is ready for intercourse,( by being lubricated, the clitoris becomes erect and the genitals fill with blood, and the vagina opens). When there is not,intercourse can be painful.If a woman has already internalized that intercourse is or will at some point cause pain, in addition to which she is not excited enough, she may tense her vaginal muscles, resulting in even more pain as I described in my previous post. So I dont question who she slept with, but the motivation to have intercourse when clearly not enough arousal has occured.
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